What are signs your relationship is over

What are signs your relationship is over?

A relationship can feel like you are joined at the hip. All your time and energy are focused on your partner and vice versa. So, it can be hard to imagine ever moving past that point. That doesn’t mean that relationships shouldn’t last forever or go the distance – they take work. Even if you think that you have found the person with whom you want to spend the rest of your life, there will come a time when one of you decides that maybe it’s not going in the right direction. And that is when you must ask yourself, “Is this worth saving?”

A relationship breakup could be triggered by a lack of communication, trust issues, or arguments over small things that escalate. Whatever the reasons are, it is an inevitable part of life and something we all have to face sooner or later.

1. One of you is possessive

One of you is possessive

Because of our human nature, checking in on your partner can sometimes be perceived as an act of jealousy. And yes, there are an equal number of jealous people in relationships, but it’s essential to know the difference between being concerned and being a jealous person. You should know when your partner has been flirting with someone else, but you can’t feel the need to save your partner from everyone who approaches them.

2. You don’t trust your partner

You don't trust your partner

If you have trust issues in a relationship from the beginning, there is probably not much chance of saving it. Trust is one of the essential elements in a happy and healthy relationship. If you think that your partner is lying to you without any reason or they cheat on you with one-night stands, and there is no remorse, it’s time to take action.

3. It’s been years, and you don’t have a togetherness

It's been years, and you don't have a togetherness

If, after years of being in a relationship, you don’t feel like there is something more at stake than just the two of you, it could be time to call it off. Although relationships take time to develop, they also need to evolve and make steady progress. If you can see that your relationship has gotten stuck or gone backward, maybe it’s time to change that.

4. You haven’t met your partner’s family yet

You haven't met your partner's family yet

This could be their parents or even an uncle or an aunt. People close to them make the very first impression of a person. If your partner has family members who don’t like you or haven’t even introduced you to their friends, they could be a bad sign.

5. Your partner goes through mood swings

Your partner goes through mood swings

It’s normal for people to have mood swings when going through a relationship breakdown. But if your partner has no real reason for their mood swings, they start to feel bored with the idea of being with you. Some people need more emotional variety to be happy, and it could be time for them to move on and find someone who will turn them on now and then.

6. You don’t get each other

You don't get each other

It could be funny and annoying at times, but if you think your partner is not getting you, it means that there is a severe problem. If you are trying and putting in the effort to make the relationship work, but they aren’t on the same page with you, it could be time to call it off. You can’t force anyone to put in the effort if they aren’t ready for the change. And that is okay too.

7. There is constant arguing

There is constant arguing

When a relationship grows stale and you start arguing over minor issues, perhaps it’s time you sit down and talk about where the relationship is heading. You both had a great time together at one time, but now that spark seems to have gone missing from your relationship. Perhaps it’s time to rekindle those old feelings by remembering what brought you together in the first place.

8. You don’t love them

You don't love them

One of the essential parts of a relationship is to show love and affection to the other person. If you can’t stand them, you should consider leaving. The first step towards finding someone who will make you happy is loving yourself first and then getting out there and looking for someone who will fill your heart and satisfy your soul.

9. Your partner hasn’t changed their habits

Your partner hasn't changed their habits

If your partner has been doing things independently since they met you, they are probably not interested in changing anything. If you want to change your partner or save the relationship, you must be patient and accept their faults. If they haven’t made any effort to change their bad habits, they aren’t invested in making things work between you.

10. You never fight

You never fight

Fighting is part of a relationship; no one said it wouldn’t be messy. But if there are no arguments, there is something wrong with the relationship. It could be a sign of cheating or simply an indication that your partner is not trying to do anything about the situation. And that isn’t okay either.

11. You are always thinking of breaking up

You are always thinking of breaking up

Regardless of what you do in the relationship, you are always thinking about breaking up with your partner. It could be because they have changed a lot or because you don’t want to be in a relationship with them anymore. But rather than just walking out of the door and calling it quits, it’s essential to try and work things out. You might discover that your partner isn’t as bad as they seem and that they will change their way of behaving in time.

12. They are too clingy

They are too clingy

It’s great to have someone who seems to care about you and your well-being. But if you find that they have a habit of constantly asking you questions or being more interested in your life than theirs, perhaps it’s time for them to move on and find someone who will show them the same quality of respect.

13. Your partner doesn’t respect you

Your partner doesn't respect you

This is a critical aspect of a relationship because it means your partner doesn’t want to stay with you for the long haul. It doesn’t matter if they do it unwillingly or try to make the relationship work. If your partner doesn’t respect you and acts in a way that makes you uncomfortable, it is time to take action and leave them.

Conclusion

Undoubtedly, there are signs your relationship is over. Perhaps you catch yourself saying “we” rather than “you” or “I.” Or maybe you can relate to at least one of these signs your relationship is over. Whatever the case, if a relationship seems to have lost its way and isn’t working the way it once was, take a step back and determine whether the fault lies solely with yourself or your partner. Only then can you hope to correct what’s wrong and make it work again.

 

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